Since the Getting Dumped article mentioned earlier is aimed at those that have been in a relationship for a while, I’m aiming this one at those men that have only been out on 1-5 dates.I don’t put pressure on myself to know her life history or her plans for the future right away.Try to find something uniquely attractive about her that you wouldn’t notice in other women. Find out why she’s incredible, and tell her what you’ve noticed.
If you can’t find something great and unique about her, I was confused, and asked her why she’d suggest that.
She told me that sometimes guys forget to make a girl feel like he’s actually interested in her.
Maybe you’ve been on several dates and somehow the oxygen gets sucked out of the budding attraction and things are suddenly dead on arrival? It’s not time to be frustrated with yourself or your dates.
Let’s take stock and consider a few points that might be going wrong.
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Our most read article during Christmas Day was 8 Reasons Why You Keep Getting Dumped. I recently was asked to begin writing a dating column for an alumni association I’m a part of, and Fearless Men is now featured on the Man Up Leadership App.Don’t let this level of desire for a woman build up-yet.If you are feeling that strong for a girl that quickly, you might be acting funny towards her. And that sucks the fun out of the fun stage of a relationship.If you don’t show that you’re attracted and find her likeable, she probably won’t feel much of a spark. Have you been out with a woman that was a total stiff toward you? Did you show up in a rush, sweaty, and kept looking at your phone the whole time?You probably didn’t feel she was interested, and you’re attraction for her probably took a jolt too. You might be quick to answer that you of course weren’t a jerk. If you didn’t show up ready, on time, and focused enough to give her your undivided attention, you might have come off as a jerk even if you didn’t say anything rude.If you’re hung-up on a girl within the first 3 dates, it’s going to be hard to not show it.