If you make a man your whole life, he’s going to lose interest because he will most likely feel smothered!Remember, he fell in love with the dynamic “you” who has her own interests and passions who wanted to make him a part of your life, not the whole darn thing.This is also a good way to feel out whether he’s looking for some casual fun or something a little more serious.
He’s going to wonder how after two dinners and one museum trip you already know that you want him to be your boyfriend.
So even though it’s great to let a new guy know where you are in your life or about your dating goals, take the time to get to know him before you decide.
If youre always hanging out with your cousin then why would it be any different in your dreams .
Your dreams are merely an extension of the things that you do, say, and feel in your waking life.
We normally closely associate the things that we do often with our relatives.
If you are always out and about with your friends then it wont be so strange for you to have dreams about going out and about with your friends.
Men are attracted to confident women who get the concept of “interdependence.” Interdependence requires that you’re both independent and dependent; that means you create sacred space for your relationship as well as sacred space for your work, passions and friends.
Don’t lose the things that are most important to you, and keep doing what you were doing before you started dating him: your Sunday morning yoga class, a yearly vacation with your college roommates, etc.
If you want to show a man that you’re girlfriend material, don’t hook up with him on the first date.
It will probably make him wonder if you would do the very same thing with every other Tom, Dick and Harry.
(so they might need a little more time than you to decide if you’re the one).