If you’ve been following my blog for some time, you might remember that I once wrote about how Character Trumps Chemistry.
I wanted to write a follow up article on that subject.
Guy- Hey, my friend wants to know if he can have your number.
(pointing to random guys in front of us) Guy- No, it’s actually me.
Here are some tips: If you can, throw out a feeler. The best pick up line is simple: (this works because humility is endearing, (even more so if you’re a really good-looking man because good-looking men tend to also be arrogant) and it plays on a woman’s vanity! When both parties have the power to call, they’ll want the other person to call.
This is a shout out to all the men who put themselves out there to risk rejection time and time again. Think of every “no” as a badge of honor and press on. What you’ll get is two people waiting by the phone.
It beats questions like, “What’s your favorite color?
” In the scheme of things, questions like that don’t matter. Not saying that men are beneath you, but just pointing out when women KNOW they are dating someone who is not their equal… Loser guys are sometimes lazy, sometimes selfish, sometimes stuck in a rut, sometimes careless, sometimes unmotivated, sometimes unambitious, sometimes filled with all kinds of character flaws, and ALWAYS lacking in confidence. If they aren’t moving forward in life or they have character flaws that would give your mother insomnia and make your best friend call you out on red flags, it’s not because the man is lacking in intellect. It’s empowering you to take things into your own hands. ” To that I say, it doesn’t matter who’s fault the breakup was. NOW is the BEST time to envision your IDEAL guy because you aren’t blinded by your feelings for the former guy.Loser guys never view themselves as a charity case if a good woman accepts them. They are many things, but they are usually NOT STUPID. So on day 30, brace yourself because it will be your last day to grieve. For your well being at this point, you have to think of only the negative aspects of your ex. Don’t be a martyr by dwelling on his positive attributes! In order to stop thinking of the old guy in a positive light, you have to believe there is someone better out there for you. Focus on the qualities that were lacking and what you want instead.Unfortunately, men and women are wired differently. Not only are we different because of our genders, but we’re different because each person’s past experience helps mold their expectations and each person’s past experience is different. You’ll get a taste of what drives them, what gives their life meaning and significance. It’s always nice to know what the other person views as ideal in their eyes. Let them name the top three qualities that are non-negotiable. What have you learned from your past relationships?It also gives you a view of what a future would look like with them. You can see if you’re looking for the same thing in terms of what makes a relationship good. Ideally, it would be nice to go through each of your past relationships, not to relive pain or point out the mistakes of your exes, but it’s important to know that the person you’re with has learned from their own mistakes and isn’t just moving forward ready to make the same repeat mistakes with you. These are deep questions that could lead to lengthy conversations, but it’s important to know what you’re getting into.(Below are more serious questions) After you meet a girl/guy and while you are establishing a friendship, you should get answers to these questions before you start dating. They reveal a lot about what that person expects, and what that person is looking for in terms of their dreams, their spouse, their leisure time, and their ideals. In an ideal relationship, what would you spend the majority of your time doing?