Ultimately, the Word of God needs to answer this beauty and value question for your girlfriend.
She needs to know she is beautiful and has worth for herself because the Bible says so.
Unfortunately, a lot of times guys do not understand how central this question is.
If you focus on all the heart-stuff, all the non-tangible things, you will give your girl what she needs the most.
You knew it would, but you didn’t think it would happen so quickly.
She needs you to be honest in DTR (defining the relationship) type convos, and she needs you to help create and enforce emotional and physical boundaries within the relationship.
The clearer you can be in your intentions and expectations, the more enjoyable the relationship will be. Your girlfriend feels close to you when she is close to your heart.
Note: The Bible does talk about guarding your heart.
So while it is not wise to share the parts of your heart with your girlfriend early on, as the dating relationship gets more and more serious, you should continue to share more and more of your heart.
Girlfriends desire that their boyfriends be honest when communicating feelings, expectations and boundaries.
When you take the lead in honest communication with your girlfriend, you help her guard her heart.
Here are some practical ways to increase trust and prove your commitment to your girlfriend: In summary, your girlfriend needs you to be real.
She needs you to be real with God and real with her.
You are not doing anyone any favors if you try to be partially committed to her while keeping other options open.